A New Boy in the Works

A New Boy in the Works

It’s been a long time since I had the time or inclination to search for a new boy for My chain.  Keep in mind that I’m not talking about a new “play partner” or a “bottom”.  Either of those are easily found at any event.  I’m speaking about a new slave to serve Me.

That term “serve” is such a loosely coined word in our lifestyle.  It can mean so many different things to different people.  Through My writing, blogs, FetLife or any of the other ways I communicate My journey in leather, it’s pretty obvious what My meaning for the term is.  finn gets it.  He and I enjoy a comfortable place, sometimes too comfortable, where he knows what I want from him.  That place took years to get to.  It’s mostly without drama, unless I created it… lol.  I do love a little drama.  I am still training him, but it’s a different kind of training, not basic training.  After I attended a tea the other day, I said to finn that I missed showing him off because he was unparalleled at the serve.  He said he was rusty.  I can say to that, that even rusty, it would take a pretty solid service slut to best him.  I take pride in that and also in the fact that that training came from Me.

The new boy is not “out” in the lifestyle and is young so we will refer to him from here on out as jedd.  Just the fact that I have taken the time to name him is a big thing.  finn’s name came from Me as well and we both still remember his collaring ceremony that was actually done online in the chat room where he met Me.  I have since put his collar on uncountable times but that one time in the chat room stands out for Me.  jedd is not there yet by a long way but I like him.  That’s important.

He is young so there is more than training going on here.  Young boys, or girls for that matter are not usually good at thinking about anyone but themselves.  Serving a Mistress means doing that very thing.  It’s all about her, not the slave.  jedd has needs and is pretty one track about them.  Fortunately, his needs include pleasing Me so that helps out in the situation.  I pointed out to him that it would probably be easier and cheaper to just pay a Pro-Dom when he got hungry enough.  He said he didn’t want that, but we will see how that goes when I ask him to do something he doesn’t want to do.

I did that yesterday.  Even though he’s been to a pro, it was set up by him and he was not spanked or admonished.  He’d built a “list” of things I wanted to visit with a paddle to his ass and I did that.  I know he was scared, he was shaking.  I think that probably it was a delicious kind of fear.  I eat that up.  But, he held up well.  

 He’s ass trained, which is nice.  He likes this a lot.  Probably more than I like to play at it, but as I introduce him to other things, I think he might adjust and I just might start to like it more often myself.  The most important thing for Me to get across to him is that I’m not here to perform for him or make his day.  It’s about Me doing what I want with him and on My schedule.

I was pleased with him yesterday.  My house is clean although he needs to learn to be quicker and more thorough.  I think he was really scared he wouldn’t do it right and I would punish him.  He was right about that…. Lol  He has a really nice ass which I love.  He hides it with his style of dress and I want to correct that, but it looks best bent over and waiting for Me.  He took the paddle well enough.  finn hated pain in the beginning but has now come to be a bit of a pain slut.  I wonder if jedd will come around to it?  I even introduced him a little to the fire which can be a really terrifying thing but he did ok with that as well.  Since I’m a fire top, this is a good thing.

I like the way he watches me.  No matter what I’m doing, if I’m in eyeshot, I can guarantee he’s watching Me.  That is important and a good skill.  Watching the body move is a much better way to know someone than their voice.  It can rarely lie to you.  He will learn to anticipate what I want by watching Me.  I want him to learn to be calm.  I can make him calm.. so many techniques for this.

He likes rope.  Now that both boys like it, I guess I could take a little more time to get better at it.  He’s scared shitless of My whip.  That’s ok, so am I… lol

We both have busy days ahead so this may take a while and some commitment from both parties but all in all, I think he is made of stern stuff, has honor and integrity and a beautiful curiosity that is like honey to a bee for Me.  he gets to stay and make a go of it.  Welcome to the training field jedd!