Today I was fooling around with a piece of rope while I was watching TV. I got to thinking about what pleases Me most about it. There was a time when rope really wasn't My thing at all. I don't mean just sometimes I didn't like it, I mean it bored Me and I NEVER used it, preferring the clink of steel buckles and the musty smell of leather as it mixed with sweat. I also loved/love the creaking sound as My victim began to squirm. Now, I'm feeling differently about it and have a thirst to learn more about the knots. I like the way the rope feels in My fingers. I don't like the rough fibrous kind, I like the silky kind. Not the best to use of course which is par for the course because I don't ever seem to like the status quo or the winning candidate.
I saw these realllly cool bondage pictures today and it hit Me. I'm going to share them with you because I think they are hot and also because I wish that TES would invite this Mistress to NYC for a workshop. I'm sure that Tara at the Den could make sure her trip was financially feasable. Her name is Katja Minx
The reason that I didn't like bondage before is because I thought it pandered to the submissive and not to ME. It didn't seem to follow My rules of it if it's not about ME, it's not worth doing. But now, I have found some area's of rope bondage that I really like.For Men, it's the tied up cock and balls. Like in the picture above, I'm drawn to touch the head peeking out from the well constructed frame almost like a pet.
I include this picture because I LOVE PINK.
Much to finn's disdain I'm a pink freak. If there is a room full of Dominatrices and you see one of them in a pink sweater it's probably Me. So this pink rope is freaking HOT!
With women it's the small bulges that I can create from well placed rope and then I can explore those little bulges with a properly tressed up slave, gagged so they can't bother Me with comments or complaints.
I must admit though that with a woman, My main interest is in spanking her and I may take some pleasure in bringing her to orgasm. I have no interest at this time in engaging with her in sex or allowing her to touch Me. I want full control of her and care very little about receiving pleasure from her.As a small off topic sidenote, I read a story about a woman that rented a house in Martha Stewart's neighborhood that was busted this month for being a prostitute when she claims she is a Dominatrix. Rudy might have done us a favor when he cleaned up the streets but he forced a lot of wanna'be's into the D/s world which isn't so great for the reputation of some Women that enjoy being Dominant and sometimes get paid for it.
