I guess it’s time to catch up a little bit, nothing too too exciting. Most exciting of all is that a very well behaved boy (shimobe) is going to get My website up and running so that I can work on it again. We go way back and I think he’s got a nice hold on who I am and what torture it will be to work with Me on it…lol. Then I want to tell you about My excursion to the city for Tea and whips with new Mistress/Dominant friends.
I am planning to make some changes and this blog will play heavily into that. Between My blog, FetLife and the website, I can teach, and share and rage about all the things kinky and vanilla that roil around in My head. To My readers, “Bless your poor Little Hearts.” In Texas, if you hear someone say that to you, be immediately suspicious and search their eyes to see if they are finishing the sentence silently in their head with, “you little fucking bitch or bastard”. All with a sweet smile on their face of course.
Afternoon Tea with the Mistresses
I also want to talk a little bit about an outing I took last weekend to have tea with some fellow Mistresses/Dominants at SaraBeth’s uptown. Trish, who is a professional Dominant, was there and she always fascinates Me. I can promise that her character will make it into one of My books. I don’t really know her well, but because of My talents with reading people, I can say that there are so many layers there to her that it would take weeks to peel them all away to the center. Only to find there IS no center because those many different layers, are what make her who she is from one moment to the next. I admire the cruel streak she has since I don’t really possess it to that degree. If you doubt that, just take a look at her pictures on FetLife and after you study what she is doing to her latest victim, take a look at the smile on her face, a smile that DOES make it all the way to her eyes.
Before tea, we met in Central Park right across from the Museum of Natural History to work with our singletail whips a little. Trish kindly offered to share her expertise and I think that is what really got Me out of My garden on a Sunday afternoon, to go and play with others of My kind. Once I started getting ready to go, I was excited about the prospect. I don’t spend nearly enough time with women period, much less women who are like Me. I need a woman friend. I have friends in Texas and I yearn for them in a way I cannot explain. I just haven’t made any connections here In New York and I’ve been here for 10 years.
I was also excited to play with My whips in the park. A whip mentor who I’ve written about before, talked to us at a demo once about playing outside to practice with the whips and to keep them supple. He tapes a pillow to a tree to keep from tearing up his whip with tree bark and such. I was a little concerned/excited about drawing attention to ourselves. This is definitely the sort of thing that people like to catch on video and splash across YouTube. I decided that I didn’t really care about that one way or the other. Plus, it would be fun for Me to watch the passers by and note their reactions. True to staid New Yorker form, people noticed, looked and walked on. There were a few people that I noticed take more than one stroll back and forth and that made Me smile and pull out My whip.
Trish let Me try out her whip and I fell in love. Visions of Me, a nice dungeon, a quivering slut and a few buckles and chains danced across My mind the minute the handle dropped into My waiting grip. It SPOKE to me. No, No, really it did. It’s voice is whispery and soft and then it’s louder with a SNAP! I must have it. My whip is nice and fun but that whip was essence and grace and, and, and, well it’s ME!
As you can see, it excites Me and I will have one before I go to TesFest. I can break it in on finn. Don’t worry about him, he’s a trooper! His wife Zoe will be there too and I’ll spend some time teaching her the basics of it as well. It’s a win winn.
After a while it was time to go to tea, because we had reservations and Sarabeth’s, and like the good Mistress she is, she waits for no one, not even a group of bossy Dominant Women. I was a little disappointed that we had missed the brunch menu but the food was secondary to the company anyway. It was great fun getting to know everyone but, the long table made it impossible to spend the quality time I wanted with each person. I think it might be a fun idea to have three different flights to the tea. Everyone sits in tables of four and then divide it into the appetizer, for the first flight, main course, second flight and dessert accordingly. Each table mixes for each flight. That way you get to spend quality time with each person.
I might try to pull that together at some point. I also thought about having a nice bar-b-que this summer. I love to entertain. I DON”T have a big fence so we would have to keep it rather vanilla but it would still be fun and it’s very easy to get out to Island Park from Penn Station on the LIRR. It would be fun to have boys to serve at My Garden party.
I’ve been much too reclusive for someone as social as I am. I’m vowing to put a stop to that. What I noticed after that tea is how EMPOWERED I felt. Not just that day but for the rest of the week. My boss didn’t bother Me, My co-workers didn’t bother Me either. I just shrugged it off. I was way less needy with My Husband, who was quietly rejoicing that I was out finding friends. Keeping Me entertained all the time is a full-time, exhausting job for him.
Anyway, so now there is a new checkbox on My to-do list.
- get a new slave to My chain
- make new friends in the scene
Wish Me luck!
Kiss kiss
