I think it might be pretty important here to point out that this is My personal journal and not the New York Times.. lol
This is where I come to rant about the things that bother Me. If you choose to visit it and read that is fine. Just remember that this is My world, where I say what I want.,, and not a public place. I say what I want here. It's for Me and Mine.
I wish you wonderful success with the home you are forming. I have been many years in this lifestyle and I'm a very active Mistress in My everyday real life. This incident, however distasteful did let Me know that Your Elysian Fields is probably not the home for Me.
I expect more from the slaves around Me. I have many friends, both Mistress and Master here in NYC and in Dallas and Houston and San Diego who all train their slaves to be pleasing and respectful of other Dominants so I don't think this is really a Gorean issue or that I just "don't understand" BDSM. I just expect more and maybe that comes from being in the lifestyle for a long time and knowing many slaves and submissives and finally realizing that slaves LIKE structure and protocol.
this boy was trained by Me and I find it embarrassing that he behaved in this way. I know him better than anyone and disagree all you like but I see through his patterns on this incident like a fish in a bowl. Little blowups like this are ahre's specialty and after Tosca has had to clean up a few more, I think She will understand where I'm coming from. She's a smart Girl.
I do not ever expect another's property to obey My command. I do expect that person's property to be polite and understanding of a name that I find distasteful.
I never once demanded that the boy address Me as Mistress. he even addressed DeS as Mistress then turned around and called Me Ma'am. I could see his smile as he typed that. he knew that I would pick up on it. I know of the preferences of some regarding this issue of the word "Mistress". AS I said before I left your home, there are too many options around that problem to accept that the only answer would be for Me to just suck it up and allow a slave to address Me with a greeting that is distasteful to Me. That Tosca's command be allowed to go to the extent that I am made uncomfortable is also ludicrous.
So anyway, no big deal. I see how this issue is understood by You and that Tosca and ahren are regulars in your home and that you consider them to be on the right side of this issue.
finn shared the log with comments from You and Tosca and ahren which was enlightening. I see no reason to "face" you about anything. Something happened in your home that I was not pleased about and I left. I don't see how that hurts you or your home. I write in My personal Journal My thoughts and I make no apologies for that. Again, that does not affect you or Tosca or ahren. They are MY thoughts, so I don't see that We need the Drama about it.
I will just travel on to a home that fits more to My level of the lifestyle. Thank you for all the tutoring on AV's and other things about the Palace. Devilyn and lil devon who is such a wonderful slave will be Missed. Your room is nice and fun and I wish you wonderful things with it.
Oh, I have not restricted finn from EF. If you would like for Me to ask him not to come just let Me know. Anyone that wishes can email Me at kytherea@gmail.com.
