Spanksgiving 2011

Since I returned home from Spanksgiving, I’ve been on the run with busy work projects and a first time visit to New York with my young grandson. So finally a cold has put Me soundly to bed, I might as well take the time now to write about my trip to St. Louis.

I was excited on My way to St Louis and took some time on the plane to plan out my time while there. I had three major things I wanted to accomplish.

1) finn needed some reigning in, which happens when a slave is off doing his own thing most of the time. finn and I manage a long distance relationship as Mistress and slave and since we have been at it for about 10 years, we have it down pretty well. Still, I felt he was forgetting his place so, I planned to make this weekend way more about Me than him. His wife Zoe was there as well, so it pleases Me that he must keep Us both happy. Not an easy accomplishment, but good practice for him.

2) For some time, actually since the first time I laid eyes on her, I have planned to spend some play time with frenchies. She’s sweet and fun and attracted to me as well so when the chemistry works, best to give it a go. I actually spent a long time planning this time with her and while in that creative frame of mind, a dream came to Me of a picture that I wanted to create with her body, fire and wax. It was a clear in my mind as if I was holding the picture in my hand.

3) I wanted to try a wax scene. I learned about wax at TESFest in New York and was itching to give it a try. I wanted to combine wax and fire so to do this, I needed permission from the powers that be, JSIN, at Spanks...

So, with these objectives in mind, I sat back on the plane and closed My eyes and started planning. Sometimes, I wonder if submissives realize the work that goes into controlling their world....

On the way to the hotel, we stopped at the wax store so I could look for some more wax for the scene with the picture and also one that I wanted to do with frenchie and finn. finn was grinning because he knew our visit was going to be entertaining and Charles had his characteristic smirk as he wandered about looking at all the tall wax candles offering a comment here and there. I realized early on that I needed to tell the lady who is an expert with wax what I really wanted to do with it. She took the kinky news like a pro and quickly started pointing out the right waxs. I can highly recommend Missouri Candle and Wax Co. for all your wax enjoyment. They even will refill your candles for you. And here is a tip, do buy one of their caramel chocolate pecan candies as a treat before you leave, then be sure to message me and say thanks because they are to die for.

We went to finn’s to wait for Zoe to get off work and it’s always a pleasure to be in his beautiful home. I took a nap on the flower bed in the guest room and it was just what I needed.

Before the dungeon, we had dinner with Pairadox and his beautiful girl Ideally Bound at Rigazzi’s which is a tradition for us. Charles loves their fishbowl of beer. Dinner was wonderful and the company and conversation just what I had hoped it would be. They are delightful company and since Pairadox started Me on My path to fire... I’m always the excited pupil. I asked him to help out with the picture I wanted to do with frenchies since I’d never done a wax buildup to use fire and I know he had. He was so very gracious to offer to help. Ideally Bound is a beautiful girl and smart too, which makes her a pleasure to converse with as well as to watch her beautiful body writhe and sway under the expert stroke of the whip that Pairadox wields.

Friday night brought me time with finn to play with fire and My floggers and paddles and all things lovely and leather. Charles and Zoe wandered off so finn and I were on our own and made good use of it. I love it when the paddle stings him till he dances and the smell of My fire flogger as it whooshes through the air. It felt good to zero in on My slave and be practically oblivious of anything else going on around us. I could feel the connection there and it’s vital to the Mistress/slave relationship to have that. I crave it and I know he does to. That set the weekend off on a good note and it followed that path for the rest of our time there.

On Saturday, we attended the advanced fire workshop that Pairadox was doing and really enjoyed it. I just love the smell of burning fuel. In between the demo’s, I spoke with Cruel Intentions who I’d asked to take the picture of frenchies. To my surprise, I found that he did not have a studio set up. In the past there was always a place to have pictures done so I didn’t think to check on that, just assuming it would be there again. That little oversight caused some consternation but with Jsin to the rescue it was all worked out. He put together a makeshift stage and backdrop for the picture and CD held off on his dinner plans to shoot it. frenchies came in all ready to go. This picture was a pain in the ass to the people trying to help me make it a reality and Jsin and CD and frenchies and Zoe and finn all went above the call to pull it together for me.

The one hiccup was that we had to do the pic early and I had no idea where Pairadox was. I was going to have to do the wax bases Myself. I knew what I wanted the end result to be and I needed the wax bases to allow the flames to burn longer and bigger for the picture.... I did it myself and it turned out GREAT! frenchies made Me laugh when I was rubbing her down with oil ( oh poor me.. yea I know but somebody had to do it.. lol) and CD kept saying put more there.. etc etc. She said, “Mistress he just likes watching you oil me up!” CD unashamedly said, “Damn straight I do!” We all laughed and had a ball getting her into just the right position, pouring hot wax on her ass and lighting her up.

CD was just clicking away and he got it, that perfect shot , just like I knew he would. We kept telling her to squinch up tighter and put her ass higher in the air and her head closer to her ass to which she tried to do whilst shooting us both the finger. That’s ok, I have put that on her “list” for next time. I couldn’t spank her right there, I didn’t want a crying, sniffling girl in the picture. That will have to be the next one.

The next problem on the horizon was the wax and fire scene I wanted to do with finn and then frenchies. The event planners had placed the wax play area in the quiet dungeon with no fire tarp and had said there could be no wax play in the fire area. Since I wanted to combine fire and wax, this was a setback. This time, Jsin and Bo to the rescue. I explained what I wanted to do and they said to leave the wax in the fire area. I did that and went to take a nap but when I came back downstairs, it had been moved back by the DM’s who didn’t know I had permission. We finally worked it all out and I had this great scene with frenchies that was so pretty, I’m so sorry there are no pictures to show you.

frenchies had planned to do a needle/feather scene and since I’m squeamish about needles, I got a little nervous. In addition to that, I couldn't really interact with her the way I had originally planned or in My normal way because even though the needles would be out by then, she would still be sensitive there. I knew we could do the wax and play with fire without any problems so that is what I did and it was both fascinating and fun. She would never have made it through a usual scene with Me with those wings or the aftermath of them. Next time, her headspace and her ass is Mine, no needles until I’m done with her.

She went right to the cross and took the fire floggers and fire on her tender back like a champ. Wax was dripped all over her and fires were lit and, man, it was a gorgeous site.. beautiful naked girl, wax and fire... what else is there in life... hmm?

finn played with the wax as well but he was like.. YAAWWWWWWWNNNNNNNNNN It did nothing for him. I liked it though and that’s what counts.. lol

Once all that was accomplished, I was exhausted and was happy to fall into My bed and dream about naked girls on fire and finn’s red ass....

I want to thank my boy for making My time there so comfortable and doing his best to follow all his “instructions”. his service is the best and why not since he’s had such a wonderful trainer. lol

I always enjoy the events in St. Louis and this year’s Spanksgiving was no exception. It just keeps getting better and better.